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Sabtu, 10 Desember 2011

Be careful Romance ended Due Technology


 
There is always a positive and negative side of all things, including technology. If not careful, which should facilitate the development of technology, it can disturb your love story.

There are people who get a lover over the Internet, but there is also a cast idol of the heart via SMS. The presence of technology in the world of romance is now more advanced. Not just the interface but also could serve as a detective to "guard". Well, if not careful, a good technological sophistication can actually harm your love life turned around. Beware!

Busy yourself
Skinfold-type on a BlackBerry or smart phone you almost can not stop even until the last moment before sleep. Often times you focus more on the phone, rather than the couple who sat next to sweet. At leisure, you both interactions are also often less than the maximum because of the presence of interference coming through your gadgets.

Do not let gadgets or other communication tool to reduce the quality of your relationships with significant others. Try as much as possible to forget you and talking gadgets with lovers, friends for dinner. However a personal touch and when face to face interaction is important to improve the quality of the relationship even though you already communicate with each other all day via text message.

The first priority
What do you do when just woken up? Couple hugging, kissing the baby, or check the messages on your cell phone? Answer the latter probably more currently selected.

Are you aware that currently the mainstay gadget has turned into a priority rather than someone dear? How many times do you have to release the grip while watching a movie with your loved one because they have to check the message? Often also an important conversation with a partner disrupted because there are signs of an incoming message on the phone.

Do not let yourself be "colonized" gadgets. Always set limits when you can continue to check the messages on the phone and when you can really focus to interact with a lover. Your dear ones would have been disappointed if it is secondary, though by electronic toy.

Existence
The more developed, the Internet becomes a place for various things, including the show's existence. "How come your Facebook status is still single, we've invented it?"

"Put the same photo I dong on Twitter avatar?"

Well, little things like this often becomes the cause of conflict. The word love or commitment now no longer enough just demonstrated in person. Status on the Internet was important to establish a relationship. If the beloved object, then the potential conflict can occur.

Considered still want to get a boyfriend, do not want to show already had a wife, or even accused of not displaying a pity if you do not want the existence of someone dear on social networking sites! Though every person has a reason and preferences of each.

It could be the lover refused to reveal too many personal stories or her love life on social networks as more use it for business. Discuss this carefully and do not make a claim.

If he was ready to open her personal life to the public, without being asked anything he would gladly put up status in a relationship or married on social networking profile.

Spy
Stalker or the stalker of the present era is different from the days of Alfred Hitchcock. Now, no longer need to leave home to find out what is being worked on lovers, where he was, until with whom he went. Simply peep-peep status or even social networking mobile phone equipped with GPS-based applications making it easy to track his whereabouts.

It is also a potential conflict because no little blind a jealous spouse. Lover and her ex are both 'check in' foursquare in a particular mall and it does not mean they're together. It could be coincidence.

Or another case, if your partner is too often mention someone on Twitter, then you automatically open the person's profile: Who is she and what to do with your lover.

Are you in a confrontation over the Internet instead of greeting the couple believe it? Especially if the couple knew each other passwords. Periodically there will definitely be checking your inbox each activity or activities and friendship at the site quietly.

Huft! Yes so tiring lover today. Perhaps many have forgotten the name of trust in a relationship. Therefore, do not forget the face to face communication so that the relationship remains strong with no need to rush into a stalker in cyberspace.

New demands
Read ("R") why has not repaid? Why he did not want to tell Facebook password? Not a few are also couples who ask his girlfriend to send photographic evidence where he was for not believing in the words of lovers. Many new demands emerging with the development of technology. These demands are often a source of conflict if the couple does not have a strong relationship foundation.

Easy to assess
"The new boyfriend you narcissistic yes, just look at Facebook."

"I think your new friend deh strange people that I see Twitter."

When met or heard of someone new, not infrequently does is look for or browse social networking account name in the search engines. Search results social networking accounts also vary. Some are positive, some negative. But often it's the search results be used as material for judging the person. It could be that you cancel a date just because it saw "weirdness" on social networking account.

Like just do not judge a book by its cover, do not also judge someone just from their social networking accounts. Indeed, social networking account could provide a picture of the person, but there's no harm in a direct meeting and who knows he is not as you might expect.

Cheating
This is the most potential to cause conflict. Some studies suggest high activity on social networking sites can open up the potential for cheating. Ease to flirt and connect with old friends could open new doors for playing with fire. Just to make friends or have entered into the category of cheating? Limitation of flirting are now increasingly gray in the presence of features in social networking.

Do not let this happen to your relationship. The key, still maintain the quality of communication and trust in relationships. Strengthen your relationships through direct interaction with each other and remain the mainstay berkabar through gadgets.

Do not let the Internet and gadgets that ruin your love relationships are so valuable.


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